There is an ever growing trend of mother's asking if they are happy. And in answer to that question some are leaving the home to find more fulfillment.
As we do soul-searching it is important to make sure we are asking the right questions.
Visualize scouring your bathroom. If you asked yourself,
"Am I happy scrubbing this toilet?"
Your thoughts and feelings could quite naturally feel disgusted and entitled to be doing something more 'worthwhile'.
Now visualize the same scenario but replace that question with,
"What can I learn from scrubbing this toilet?"
Self-talk is powerful."Why" questions often are victim-based. If we re-phrase with "what" questions we will find we are taking an active role to bettering our life.
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